I was seventeen when I realised
I was seventeen when I decided
And I couldn’t be there after that
I couldn’t stay
I couldn’t be a mother
Not then
Not there
Maybe someday
Not ever
I couldn’t have a baby
with a father like mine
Maybe I just didn’t want
to be a mother like mine
I was eighteen when I walked away
Sometimes you think you have no options
That you’re a passive observer
A passenger in the vehicle of your life
That there’s nothing you can do except put up with it
and cope as best you can
And then you reach your limits
and the balance of the risks
of action and inaction start to change
I’d never thought of myself as someone who’d endured
I’d just thought myself incapable of making any kind of change
But there are always choices
And as the options of my life contracted
As I realised that I had
nothing and nobody
As I realised if I stayed I could
only become someone
that I hated
It no longer felt impossible to walk away
Because suddenly the choice wasn’t between whether to go or to stay
But about whether to be somewhere
Or not to be at all
And it turned out I wasn’t ready for my life to be over
So I left
But I can’t talk about that
And maybe some day I’ll be able to explain
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